Would you climb a staircase that leads to nowhere? Would you even start the climb if you didn’t care about what was at the top? Probably not! This is exactly why you need to be clear on what you want, if you don’t know what you’re climbing towards, why would you bother climbing at all? If you know what you want, you can set small clear goals on the way to your larger goal, and make consistent measurable progress.
The most dreaded day of the week is here, and I for one don’t dread my Mondays, I look forward to them. The way you live out your Monday sets the tone for the rest of the week. Why do we detest Monday in the first place? Is it because we have to go back to work after enjoying a weekend of freedom? If you go back to work in this mindset, that’s now setting you up for the best week ahead.
I approach every Monday as an opportunity to make this the best week yet, when I walk in the doors of my office, I aim to be as productive as I can be, for as long as I can be right off the bat. After this I take a quick break and greet everyone so I can spend a couple minutes standing and resting my mind, then back to it. When I spend my Monday morning being incredibly productive and getting ahead of things that would otherwise bog me down the rest of the week, I can rest easy later on in the day, able to efficiently schedule the rest of my week and not have to worry about the catchup I took care of in the morning.
So it’s up to you, is Monday a dread that comes around only to signify the weekend being over? OR is Monday the opportunity for you to get ahead and set the tone for the week ahead?
Remember, that no matter what happens to you on your path, you can’t get to the top on talent alone. You need to hustle, or in other words, you need to work your butt off to get where you want to be. Unless you work hard, your talent doesn’t mean much in the long run.
Steve Jobs once said “If you want to make everyone happy, don’t be a leader, sell ice cream.” And as funny as this quote is, it holds a great deal of truth. As a leader it will never be possible to make everyone happy, all the time. Every time you make a decision affecting one person in a positive way, it will generally make another feel either negatively affected, or unfairly treated in some way. Thus you can’t make everyone happy.
Until next time
Life is a sales floor! Wait, what? How could this be true? This analogy is something I’ve allowed to follow me through everything I do in my life. I do this for one simple reason, it holds true in most life arenas. What does this mean though? That is what you’re really asking right now isn’t it? Read on to find out.
In life we have many interactions with people everyday, and each of these interactions is similar to a sales transaction, either somebody is “selling” you, or you are “selling” them. The sale that is occurring here is that somebody is always pitching something to someone, or convincing someone of something. Think about it, when you talk to your friends about what to do tonight, that is a sale, everybody is selling their idea. When you’re with your significant other and deciding on dinner, you’re each selling each other ideas. Anytime you go anywhere and talk to anyone at some point in the conversation, there is a “sale” taking place.
Much like a business sales environment each of these sales is comprised of elements. These elements are highlighted below:
- Knowing your client – If you know what the other person likes and dislikes then you can use this information to highlight your idea or product. For example if you know your best friend’s favorite food is sushi, when they ask where you should go for a dinner together, that particular suggestion would be an easier “sell” than any other.
- Building Rapport – No matter who you talk to, this rapport is a huge element of the conversation you’re having. Statistics say that 71% of clients buy from salespeople they like, trust, and respect, therefore having a rapport when having a conversation with anybody is important. Luckily with friends and family you already have this rapport. This and the trust they have in you, means that your suggestions are easier to accept.
- Determining what the client wants – This ultimately roots back to knowing your “customer”, but it comes down to more of a situational basis. If you know what somebody is more interested in right now, versus something else, then you have an immediate advantage if you make a suggestion that solves that problem.
- Solving a Problem – This is a huge portion of “selling” any concept or product. If your suggestion or product doesn’t solve a problem, or make life better for the person on the “buying” end, then there’s a much tougher “sell” ahead of you. For example, if you know a friend might be hungry when they ask what you should do tonight, you’d have a much easier time suggesting a dinner, than another activity.
- Pitching the Idea – Eventually in any conversation you have to present your opinion, solution, product, or idea. This is where you begin convincing or “selling” the other person on your idea. When you and a friend are discussing a restaurant, and you say you like it, and they don’t, you immediately begin “selling” them on why this restaurant is good. In this scenario you’re “selling” your opinion on them.
- Closing – Every sale ends in a close no matter what is on the line, if you never finish the conversation then nobody is convinced of anything. In the previous example, when you had finished telling your friend why you liked the particular restaurant, you may close this by saying something like “you see why I like it”, or “don’t you agree?” This is the close, every “sale” has one.
As I said before, most conversations in life have some or all of the elements of a sale involved in them. So if this is true does that mean we all use sales skills in our everyday life? The simple answer is yes. We all use mind games, and negotiation skills everyday without realizing it. This doesn’t necessarily mean we are salespeople, but it does mean we possess some of the skills required to sell.
Until Next Time.